EP50 Parents – Forget About Self Care – Focus On The Kids

Focus on the kids first... not a great plan. In fact, it's the opposite of what you should be doing. You are an individual first, then part of a couple THEN you are a parent.

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Show Notes:

​0:50 Focus on the kids? Really?
2:00 5 dates in 50 days... not for us right now
2:40 A different commitment
3:00 Three hoola hoops in a relationship
4:25 Extreme circumstances is different
5:00 Self first, then the relationship
5:30 Focus on what?
6:15 Examples that work... then what?
6:50 Focus on the marriage else the kids will suffer
7:20 First, I'm a husband... then the other things
8:20 Men have egos!!!
8:44 Women need communication...
9:20 Validation
9:45 Closer or further apart
10:00 Just listening is better than saying the wrong thing
10:45 ... now for you ladies
11:25 Painting the room... you missed a spot!
12:20 Men want to please their women
12:45 The right example
13:25 Stroking the male ego
13:40 Pour into each other, the proper way
14:00 Kids feel their parents relationship
14:10 Staring into the eyes of a stranger

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Ryan Roy

Ryan Roy is the father of two boys and on a mission to be the dad he wished he had... and to help other fathers be the best they can be too.

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